In Malaysia, there’s a life script we’re all low-key expected to follow: Graduate, get a “real” job, climb the ladder, and stay there forever. Leaving that behind? Now that’s the part people struggle to understand.
The fear isn’t just about losing financial stability — it’s about disappointing your family, dealing with awkward questions, and being labeled as “lost”. But for some, walking away from a conventional career path meant survival.
So we spoke to five Malaysians who did exactly that — walked away from the expected, embraced the unknown, and never looked back.
1. Shannon, 30: “I quit knowing my relatives would gossip about me!”
For years, as a Senior Finance Executive, Shannon crushed KPIs, filed finance reports, and nailed her performance reviews. But every night, she’d bury herself in sketchpads, ink, and brush pens.
And just like that, one lingering thought changed everything: “What if I did this for real?” When she finally handed in her resignation, she had to face her biggest fear — becoming a hot topic at family gatherings.
“I could already hear them saying, ‘Why would she leave a stable job?’” she laughs. But it definitely took real courage for her to walk away from a secure career and build something of her own. Fast forward a year, and Shannon’s now running a fully booked calligraphy business with a waitlist that stretches months.
2. Priya, 26: “I had to accept that people would think I’m wasting my degree!”
With a double major in engineering and a family full of engineers, Priya’s life was set on paper. But post-pandemic, something shifted. Her weekends slowly became all about clay, glazes, and pottery wheels.
And just like that, one tough conversation with her parents flipped her entire path. “I felt like I was breaking a generational contract,” she admits.
Today, Priya’s handcrafted ceramics regularly sell out at local art markets and home décor stores. Her hands may stay covered in clay, but for the first time, she feels completely free of everyone else’s expectations.
3. Sarah, 27: “I knew I’d be seen as doing nothing!”
For three years, Sarah worked as an Executive Corporate Writer at a major telco — crafting company newsletters, and covering corporate mental health initiatives. The irony? She was burning out quietly behind her screen.
With a secondhand camera and a love for creating content, she gathered her courage to take the leap and started her journey as a UGC (User-Generated Content) creator. The first few months? Messy and unpredictable.
But slowly, the gigs came in, and today, Sarah’s built a growing lifestyle photography business. She’s still figuring things out, but at least, she’s figuring out her life.
4. Luke, 36: “My friends thought I was having a midlife crisis!”
After more than a decade as a Senior Logistics Coordinator, Luke knew deadlines, shipments, and 3AM delivery calls like the back of his hand. His unexpected breaking point? A simple birthday brownie.
What started as a casual bake for a colleague soon grew into a mini side business, with more coworkers placing orders. Before long, DMs from friends and strangers started rolling in after seeing his bakes online.
And now his home bakery sells out almost every weekend. Corporate customers who used to know him from logistics, now know him for his burnt cheesecakes.
5. Wei Jie, 33: “Even my boss said, ‘You’ll regret this.’ But I never did!”
Wei Jie was the head of HR at his office — the one leading appraisals, and giving career advice. But during one performance review with a junior colleague, something snapped.
“I found myself saying, ‘You should do what makes you happy’ while sitting there stuck in a job I didn’t love,” he recalls. That uncomfortable realisation became his turning point.
Today, Wei Jie runs a cozy vegetarian café tucked in a quiet corner of Subang — serving home-cooked meals and, ironically, still giving people advice, just over coffee now.